Practice makes
perfect
Often after trying these tips, people can believe that
making an impression isn’t possible or that they don’t work. This is because
they usually only try them once or twice, fail at them, then give up on the
practice altogether. Making an impression is a social skill that needs to be
practiced regularly to get good at, it doesn’t come naturally. Practice this
skill on your friends, new people you meet, and others. This way you’ll be
prepared for the encounter that does matter.
The classic,
bumping into them
Bumping into them physically or accidently touching them is
a classic move that should be used more often. Of course, you are going to
claim that it was an accident. This is a good way of opening a door to talking
with them. At this point they can’t ignore you. Be sure to follow up your
clumsiness with strong confidence and humor.
Find out a little
about him
If you know someone who knows them, perhaps the party host,
get a little background information about the man you are interested in making
an impression on. This way you can mentally prepare yourself about what topics
to bring up when you do have a conversation with him. Bring up topics that you
share in common, or things that he is passionate about.
Use their name
People will remember someone who acknowledges them by their
name instead of just the common “hi”. It shows they remember the person and
think they are important. The common hello, says that you’ve forgotten about
them and you have given no second thought to them. People by nature, like
people who like them.
Confidence
Confidence is a broad topic. More specifically your
confidence should come out in your smile, eye contact, and body posture. This
includes what you do with your hands, and the way you sit and stand. If you’re
sitting, don’t slouch. If you’re standing, stand like you would meeting your
boss for the first time. Use your hands to hold your drink; don’t keep them by
your side. If you have no drink, they should look natural. A confident person
is what makes an impression. People subconsciously judge a person based on
their body language, use it to your advantage and not the other way around.
Don’t break eye
contact
A lot can be said about a person with strong eye contact.
When it comes to meet a guy, locking eye contact with him and not breaking or
shying away from it is what will make an impression. It shows you’re giving
them your full attention and helps develop a connection and chemistry. Not
having eye contact diffuses any connection from happening, even if you are
talking with them.
Don’t talk about
boring stuff, talk about their passions
When it comes to your conversation, when you’re talking with
him you want to steer the conversation. Many times people, out of their
nervousness will talk about random and boring topics such as; the weather,
work, or the latest news. You want to steer the conversation to topics that he
finds exciting such as; traveling, his passions, or food. Giving him exciting
topics that he can respond to is what’s going to engages him in a conversation
with you; this is how you make an impression.
Compliments
Complimenting a man is how you make an impression. Let’s
face it; everyone loves compliments, even the little ones. When you first begin
talking with him, right off the bat you should give him a compliment. Perhaps
on his shirt, his shoes, or a point he brought up during conversation. This not
only demonstrates the kind of person you are, but also set your encounter up on
the right foot to begin with.
When talking about
yourself, keeping it interesting
Inevitably, the conversation will come back to you when he
asks about you. He most likely will not talk about something exciting like you
should be doing. He’ll probably ask you the boring questions; about your work,
what you did this week, etc. Don’t fall into the trap of answering him in a
boring way. Your answers should be exciting and original. For example, when
asked what you do for work, don’t just say you are a waitress. Follow it up
with something strange or different that happened to you at work. Talk about why
you love working there, or the quirks about your boss. Engage him through
exciting or interesting conversation, even on a boring topic. This is a way of
making an impression on him. No one is going to take notice of someone who
gives them the answers they expect.
Making an impression is a social skill that needs to be
developed. After some practice, you’ll find it comes easier and easier with
each attempt. Impressing a man is done by standing out from the other women or
people he’s known. This is done through confidence and engaging them with real
conversation. After making an impression, who knows where it will go from
there.
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